Dating only beautiful women
And trust that the right man will love you as you deserve to be loved.For more commentary on shallow men, please read: Where Are All The Emotionally Available, Mentally Healthy Men? I venture to guess that even those of us a little higher on the Beauty Scale (and whatever happened to beauty being in the eye of the beholder anyway?Of course we want to end up with a person who is the absolute best (in all areas) that we can attract.And it is true that women arent always as visually driven as men.So while you may know a handful of men who don’t care about looks, they are rarities.They are the gold standard, the type that every woman should be striving to date.And make no mistake about it – telling women to hold out for men who don’t care about looks is BAD ADVICE. Because men like this are as common as Halley’s Comet….
I don’t make people gag, but I don’t turn heads either.), I feel that no man is going to find me desirable because all men feel that they deserve and can get the hottest woman out there. Dear Tia-Maria, Thank you, thank you, thank you for asking this question.
For example I, a reasonably intelligent and thoughtful woman, for a time dated men purely on the merits of their looks (and their ability to make me laugh).
There is a difference, I think, in what is conventionally beautiful and what each of us finds attractive.
And while women can beat their heads against a wall, wishing that this were not true, they’re fighting a real losing battle if they expect men to stop worshipping at the altar of beauty.
Like much of my advice, it can rub a woman the wrong way.